This last year, Reiki found me! I’d also like to learn how to use
Bach Flower Remedies. My family does not understand any of this
energy work. My question is: “How do I heal myself with Reiki &
remedies when my partner thinks it’s all fluff?” Sarah, Hamilton.
Since you asked Sarah,
I have a couple of questions for you...
Do you believe in these healing modalities? Most importantly, do you believe in yourself? What others say to us often stems from your own feelings and beliefs. Your partner is a great mirror. The dynamic between you and your partner creates an opportunity for you to learn empathy, compassion, tolerance and how not to take someone else’s beliefs personally. Honestly? The one you love can expertly trigger you! He’s an ideal catalyst that helps you to examine your own thoughts, opinions, judgements and fears.
Overall, it is so much easier to work on yourself with strangers. The true test of personal growth, happens at home!
When you want to look at your end of the tug-a-war rope, it’s helpful to ask yourself a few hard questions: Am I seeking approval, recognition or permission? Do I want others to change so I can be happy? Am I sabotaging my own desires just because it is easier to please others and not rock the boat and conform?
Healing is very personal. What happens within “you” is your responsibility. It cannot be imposed on another, but your healing choice may change who you are being with others. If your partner calls the healing stuff fluff, can you let it be so? By just allowing your partner to have his own opinion, resistance melts and you will find yourself not needing to prove him wrong. It is a practice of right action, right thought and right being to respect another and to remain fully aware. When you are at peace with yourself and your choices, love flows and fears dissipate. Ultimately it is through the letting go of your attachments that the space for your gentleness and personal power shows up! What a gift he is Sarah! Your partner can actually serve you as a bringer of light!
Namaste
Stephanie
As a Master InnerLife Coach and Sound-Energy Healer, I am deeply committed to serving seekers and healers. My love of spiritual psychology, meditation and yoga have helped me to face fears, embrace change and transform life. Having gained wisdom and experience along the way, I invite you to write in your queries and share your healing stories. Insights begin by holding conversations with you!
Stephanie Scheid
info@innerLifesolutions.ca
www.innerLifesolutions.ca
905-921-5339
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